If there is one thing in life that I have learned is to never say never. Lizards can run on water and fish can get up and walk out from the sea. My point being, Putry, that you need to be confident because you never know what is possible.

Having a crush on someone is not only healthy but a very exciting time in anyone’s life. That being said, it sounds to me from your question that you are starting to get a little more carried away than just a crush. Everyone can sense obsession and it doesn’t cause the opposite sex to come calling.

I think you should back off a bit and not go overboard with your interest in him. Find a way to strike up casual conversation with him, without being overbearing. Let him know you are interested, without coming right out and telling him that you want him.

Nothing is impossible my dear. Just be confident with yourself and play coy, don’t stalk him and breath down his neck for confirmation of your efforts.

Be confident Putry…give him a reason and ample opportunity to make the feelings mutual on his own terms. If it doesn’t work out, then so what, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Best of luck!

-The Ambassador