Everyone moves at different speeds, we must learn not to rush someone into something they don’t feel comfortable with. In order for a relationship to succeed there must be trust first and comfort second. Jason, you may need put aside your libido on this one and give her some time to come into her own.

If you rush things and continue to make her feel uncomfortable you are going to push her away and not only is the bra going to stay on but the shirt is going to go back on as well. If you truly care about this girl then you are going to have to wait it out. Sit back and put the ball in her court…which means don’t be too eager to jump into a make out session at every drop of the hat. Eventually her hormones will take over and the roles will be reversed in this situation.

Most people don’t physically open up to others until they feel that they have emotionally opened up to one another. You aren’t doing anything wrong Jason, but as I said before everyone moves at different speeds. It sounds to me that if you truly care about this girl, and don’t just care about getting into her pants, then you’re going to have to put in more of an effort on the emotional level. Otherwise, if you are just looking for a quick hook up I think you’d be better off setting your sights somewhere else.

It’s up to you Jason what type of woman you want to date. Just realize the type of girl you are going to be getting if you go running off in search of the quick fix. Patience is a virtue and with virtue you will find happiness…and a great companion.

-The Ambassador