I’m always shocked in this day and age when women wait for “shy-guys” to ask them out. Where in the dating handbook does it distinctly say that women must wait for the male to grow a pair in order to make the first move? Honestly, I didn’t think that rule existed nowadays. So, if I couldn’t be any blunter, Lexi Babii, it’s time for you to ask this ‘Timid Tommy’ out.
From what you’ve told me, there is some obvious chemistry in the air between you two birds. Get out there and flap those wings, make him know that it’s time to leave the “friend’s nest” and grab some grub worms together.
If you’re worried that you may seem imposing by asking him out, then I think you should consider the culture we live in. Riddle me this my dear Lexi Babii, women are the head of major corporations, prime ministers, and all sorts of other power players…so why can’t they ask a guy out on a date?
I understand that it may be uncomfortable, but if guys have been doing it for ages, then how hard could it truly be? Just don’t and make things uncomfortable by making a big deal of the date.
Don’t let these ‘social guidelines,’ set back in the 50s, determine how you are going to live your life. Be bold Lexi Babii, show him how confident you are and ask him out to go see a flick or something along those lines…just make sure he buys the popcorn!
-The Ambassador